Nope. There are guys it genuinely can’t happen to because through experience they’ve learned to vet out the whores.

Every single reckless behavior must be given some idiotic scientific name to shield them from accountability. And we’re meant to take them seriously.

Notice the difference in how the media portrays single men vs single women? They paint the single man as a warning: "Don't end up like him." They paint the single woman as an inspiration: "Be like her." Mind you, it's WOMEN crying everyday on TikTok. It's women hosting dating events that NO men show up to.

As a fellow woman in my 30s I'm here to tell you this is delulu. 😂 Younger men will absolutely hit on older women. That doesn’t mean they suddenly see us as the “premium package.” A 25 year old flirting with you isn’t a demographic shift, sometimes he just wants to have fun. Una need to stop confusing attention with romantic market value. It’s pure cope and it's embarrassing 😂

But on a more serious note, this is nothing but greed and cruelty and if I was a woman I wouldn’t take it lightly. How you wan chop your own cake still wan chop my own? Your belle no dey full? Leave the stage osiso all these old takers.

Goated tweet. My exact thoughts too.

This life always punishes poor discernment. And you don't acquire discernment without making mistakes - without doing things the wrong way to iterate into the right way. Suffering is your tuition fees. Are you going to trust some guy to know what he's talking about who has never made mistakes? Fuck no. He has not taken risks. He doesn't know how to fail. He has not proven he can dust himself off and push forward when he gets crushed. He has not proven immortality. You cannot go through life without being humiliated. So be humiliated. What of it? You can heal. Stay close to God and beauty, improve your pattern recognition, and do better next time. Your unwillingness to fail and get hurt is more of a problem than actually getting hurt. This life is not for the coward!

“Suffering is your tuition fees.” 🔥🔥🔥

This pandering tactic is outmoded. Find a new tactic or just go buy cochie. No bitch is fucking your pathetic ass for this. Even they can see through your bullshit. Fucking moron.

Out of everything his narcissistic ass has done for the cameras, this tops the list. He knew he wasn't on the pitch and wouldn't be getting the spotlight, so he had to make a spectacle of himself on the sidelines..His teammates later said they weren't even listening to him.

If you wish to handle a woman well you must ascertain her needs and revealed preferences through inference and observation rather than simply take her claims at face value, because if you follow her stated preferences and give her precisely what she asks, she will more often than not punish your lack of discernment, for what she thinks she wants and what she actually needs typically do not align. You will then feel misled and confused because you ran under the faulty implicit assumption that she not only intended to be honest, but that the woman you looked to for help grasping her did in fact grasp herself enough to tell you the truth of herself, rather than her belief of herself. A woman who knows all the intricacies that make up the structural truth of her being and who is willing to transparently share them with you is the extreme exception rather than the rule, for you see not only are most women extremely ignorant of the latent, the repressed and the otherwise hidden layers of themselves, but they like to be conquered, and part of that conquest is a dance: to be revealed to themselves and resonate with how you see them, and to feel deeply known without having to reveal, express or divulge - to feel "he gets me, because he knows me because he is meant for me" - and thus be claimed in soul through nothing but perception alone, and so even if she were brilliant enough to grasp herself, to simply reveal herself to you rather than be grasped by you would be to absolve you of an important test and rob her of a most ecstatic joy - which is why the true woman does not truly surrender to a man until she realises he knows her better than she does - that all her best kept secrets have become his intuitions.

This is the player you all want his teammates to play for. Bunch of sycophants.

The reason you need to take every man’s evaluation of the quality of his woman with a pinch of salt is that the value judgment is one that directly implicates him. If his woman is good, he looks good too because then he chose wisely. If she is not, he will be ridiculed for lacking discernment. This indictment does not land proportionately from the female side, as she normally has the cover of being the more passive participant who was chosen and therefore directly vetted. The baton on her is one whether to accept or reject an advance, and were she to accept one from a man who she later deems unworthy, she can easily retreat to the advance/effort itself as the card that both enticed and deceived her (and so in this way they always retain plausible deniability that allows them to escape accountability for being poor judges of character). If, therefore, a man’s evaluation of the quality of his woman is one that directly implicates him, do we still expect him to be modest in his judgement to reflect the true state of things, or should we rather expect an over exaggeration to make her (and thereby him) look good? The other reason we cannot expect such modesty is that most men lack the awareness to properly dissect a situation in order to distill the incentive structures at play. Particularly where the alternative conclusion is one that directly flatters them. The alternative conclusion (she did xyz cos she loves me) will always be preferred to confronting the probability that an act which ordinarily would be deemed sacrificial when devoid of context, can be entirely reinterpreted if flowing entirely from selfish interest and anticipation of future benefit. It becomes as much a defect of cognition/perception as it is one of truth-preference and built predisposition/aversion to self-flattery.

Quoted tweet has been deleted by the way cos the poster very likely can’t afford to paint her fellow women as bad. Have to admire the in-group solidarity.

The dating apps are full of women with AI edited pictures looking for "something real" 😭😂😭

You can prioritise devotion or you can prioritise yourself, but you cannot prioritise both. If you are in the habit of choosing yourself, then you must give up devotion (meaning true love) because there is no room for ego in love - you cannot be pathologically selfish and self-preserving, and orient yourself around the adoration of another - it is not possible, for to choose another is to choose love, whilst to choose yourself is to reject it. You may think you like the idea of love, of romance, of devotion, of all these wonderful and fantastical things in your head - but when life requires sacrifice from you, when there is inconvenience, when you are scared, when you must prioritise another's well-being over your own self-preservation, when another's opinion matters more to you than you are perhaps comfortable with - can you hack it? No? If not, then give it up, because it's not for you. You think devotion is just some poetic indulgence - it is not. It is in fact, only for the fierce, courageous and the strong. Selfishness, being tactical, conceited, arrogant, egotistical, playing mind games - all these things - the way you date - the way you "love" - these are for the weak. They require nothing but fear and cynicism. They allow you to always put yourself first, to protect yourself first, and run away or screw someone over whenever you dislike something, are too grossly inconvenienced, scared or hurt. There are many women who dream of devotion, who fantasise about it, who model it, who give massive psychic real estate to it as a concept and have a large part of their interiority actively revolve around it, yearning, craving, desiring - but if you are not a warrior - if you are not willing TO DIE FOR YOUR LOVE - then give it up - because you are not fit to embody what you desire, and thus for you it is little more than mere psychic porn - you are not brave enough, not strong enough, not crazy enough to know and protect a love like that, because you have chosen safety, and with it, all the mediocrity that entails. True love is for the strong, which is why most of you will never know it. You will blame the world, and you will blame men - but you get precisely what you deserve. Look in the mirror. It contains all the answers you've been avoiding.

I have a trip I really want to make. Total budget is 3m and I currently have 800k I need the remaining 2.2m before next week. What do I do? I’m confused.

They will acknowledge the truth of this our gospel soon enough. Ahead of the curve always.

But every guy on X is dating a unicorn that loves them and spends on them. Na only me and codedbruh dey date the skreps wey full street lol. Una never serious.