Men tend to turn environments they dominate into hunting parties, locker rooms, or boxing rings. Women hate this. They find it threatening and vulgar, an "unsafe work environment." No more colorful jokes, boys, and take those pinup girls down off the wall.
Women turn every environment they dominate into a quilting bee ("meetings") or a kindergarten (HR struggle sessions, mandatory office fun time). Men hate this. They find it tiresome and infantilizing. Unless they're gay, or spiritually gay.
There's no squaring that circle. These are mutually incompatible environments. Establishing one precludes the other.