People read these theories and get lost in them so I'll break down the reality of 2026
- Men and women are the same, they want the same things
- Humans can enjoy lots of contrasting things (someone from the opposite sex that's attractive, or someone that they can use and terrorise, or someone that represent a challenge, or someone that's entertaining, or someone that temporarily erases boredom, or even someone that gives them some dopamine when they suffer because of someone else)
- In an ideal scenario every human wants someone that loves him because love gives you peace of mind, lowers your cortisol but at the same time every human wants to feel IN LOVE which has other components attached to it (drama, uncertainty, pure sexual attraction)
- It's all a cycle that never ends, attraction, love and security, loneliness and despair then attraction again, then peace then again despair at it just continues like this ))) Game never ENDS, it's all cycles
- We're all retarded and make no sense, men and women. IF you actually take women seriously you'll go crazy. If you try to figure a certain woman out, you'll waste time and it's pointless
This being said, the solutions as a man are these:
- Get rich and stay rich non stop
- Don't be super unattractive
- Expose yourself, at every age, to circumstances where good things might happen (Go out more when and where it matters, socialise more etc.)
- Have a good social media presence so you can pull girls from there as well
- Talk to many girls online and offline
- Don't be pussy when you're in real life and have to make a girl like you....start by TALKING don't try to be nonchalant and shit )))))
- Learn how to convince women to have sex with you
- Learn how to retain the girls you like
- Learn how to maintain a good frame so you don't get cucked and terrorised by the girls you fall in love with
- Don't have no moral principles with girls, be on the attack non stop cheating and being retarded
- Don't get lazy when you're winning. IF you have a girlfriend continue being attractive and continue talking to women.
- Let God sort it out - when you meet enough girls, some will like you a lot and are also susceptible of doing whatever you want simply because this is how they're wired
- Study the topic of dating and take it seriously because it's very important, it can destroy your life or make it amazing, it's not some joke. Who you're with / stay with / fall in love with matters.
Polygamy is the instinct of men.
Hypergamy is the instinct of women.
A woman would rather monopolize the highest-value man she can get in monogamy.
But if she cannot monopolize him, she would rather share the man she truly wants than settle for a man she considers beneath her, or have no man at all.
That is the contradiction:
Her monogamy wants exclusivity.
Her hypergamy wants the best man available.
And when those instincts collide,
hypergamy overpowers monogamy.
Female hypergamy enables male polygamy.