Despite pardoning her infidelity, My Wife Blocked Me upon getting To Canada With Our 4 Children ahead of me after I resigned when our PR application was approved — Banker Francis Ushie Former retail banker, Mr Francis Ushie, has shared how he became stranded in Nigeria after his wife allegedly blocked him from locating her and their four children following their relocation to Canada. “I was married to a lady from Obuloku in Delta state and somehow family issues happen we had a little misunderstanding on infidelity on her own part which I think anybody can be in that problem so I decided that okay maybe when we leave this environment that maybe things will be better for us” Ushie said the couple had experienced marital issues, including alleged inf+delity, and he hoped relocating would help improve their relationship. According to him, he voluntarily resigned from his banking job after their Canadian permanent residency was approved. His wife and their four children travelled ahead of him, while he remained in Nigeria for almost a year because the bank needed to audit his position. He said that when he eventually travelled to Canada in November 2014, his wife allegedly refused to give him their address. “Unfortunately when my wife got there she blocked me and didn’t give me the address where she was staying… I was stranded at the airport. That’s airport in Canada, that’s Alberta Calgary,” he said. Ushie eventually returned to Nigeria on his return ticket, but said he delayed going back to Canada while pursuing compensation from the Lagos State Government over a demolished house and waiting for funds from his business. He said he has remained stranded in Nigeria since 2016 and has spent about 11 to 12 years without his family, describing himself as a refugee with no companion. Ushie said he remains willing to reconcile with his wife but claimed she has also stopped their children from communicating with him. Appealing to his children, he defended his role as their father, saying he paid for their passports, flights and two years’ rent abroad. “So please my children, I am a very very responsible father,” he said.

She openly said she is a feminist, what do you expect.

A young man was in my DM this morning to tell me about his female "friend". He said she's a 27-year-old woman has been with the same man for eight years. The boyfriend is 35, lives in Osogbo, and she lives in Akure. According to him, he barely gives her attention and almost never shows up for her. They are not in an open relationship, and he does not know she has been seeing other men. In those eight years she has had at least five other boyfriends. There is also a man in Ibadan she describes as a long-distance thing. Some of those men treated her better than the one she has stayed with for 8 years. He was not even her first. Her family background is messy in a familiar way. Her father got her mother pregnant while he was already married to someone else. Her mother later remarried and had three children with the stepfather. Her father has other children too. She has lived with both parents at different times, and is currently with her mother, and has not spoken to her father in two years. She still keeps the Osogbo relationship anyway. So he then asked me: "Why do some people stay attached for years to someone who barely shows up, even after meeting others who treated them better?" I then asked him: What is your interest in this lady? He hasn't replied me yet. Do you all want to discuss this post, or you're waiting like me for it to be evening so you can go out to go have a nice time with some drinks and isiewu? AJD.

I have said it to ladies before if your father is not rich or any of your brothers do not marry a rich man but they will not listen... A lady I know said that her happiness is when she comes to the market ,her husband is so rich and she's from a poor home .

562 DMs God😳

How did you set it up Agba

You don finally receive small sense now abi? After you collect your stray bullet 😂😂

Umu Ada igbo ji eme onu!! Qoute with a short video or pic and your name👇 Afam bu Nwa ada Chinonso

If you look at your family background, your father's societal status, your siblings and their financial strength. And you compare it with that of the man who says that he wants to marry you. If the man's own is way above yours, please you may wish not to get married to him. Otherwise, you may become his sex toy, and the sacrificial lamb of your family. You'll be crying in a Benz but the world will think that you're happy. If you confide in your parents over what you're going through, they'll be powerless and may not be able to call your husband to order, or even counsel him. You'll hardly travel to go see your parents, neither can they even visit you to see their grandchildren. Unless with the express approval of your husband and he'll give you limited time under close monitoring. Everything will be made available to you: cars, maid, beautiful house, secured environment, etc. But you'll be lonely. You'll hardly have your friends visit you. It's only social media that they'll be seeing your lifestyle and assume that you're in "heaven". But only you and your immediate family know what you're really passing through in that marriage. And if you say that you're tired and you want out of that marriage, you'll never find it easy. The man and his family will torment your life. You may not even be able to see your children until you return back to him. That's the price you may have to pay when you do not build with a man, and you just want to run away from your poverty into wealth. AJD.